How to move to America and at one moment find everything

Photos from personal archive

“Love must be suffered,” “big money is earned over the years,” “super-result = super-effort,” - this is not a complete list of internal beliefs, or rather “cockroaches” with which I moved from Moscow to New York for exactly 2 years back. I moved alone. With great ambitions, grandiose plans for the future and a naive idea that everything will be new in a new country.

I am a risk-taking person - I did it first, then I thought, and the so-called “trial and error” method has never scared me. However, in the first year of life in America there were so many bumps: the loss of a passport with all American visas, problems with housing, financial issues, disappointment on the personal front - so instead of an imaginary luxurious life in the city of opportunities, I dealt with issues of basic survival... physical, moral and material!

It was at the peak of such tension, a year ago, from my girlfriend I first heard about Vladimir Gerasichev, the number one business coach in Russia and little-known in America!

Tanya, that’s my friend’s name, took his business training in Russia and said that Gerasichev plans to launch some sensational “Context” training in New York, and offered to participate in the project as an organizer. Then I could not even imagine that it was my personal participation in this training that would turn my whole life in America.

My internal context did not correspond to my external manifestations. So, I did not meet their ambitious goals. Photos from the personal archive

It is worth noting that by this time I was already savvy in the subject of various seminars. What I just didn’t try for my 31: personal growth trainings, business seminars, NLP courses, mountain retreats, transformation games, holotropic breathing, even managed to create my own improvement program Soulteam for girls, including psychological, physical and spiritual practices in exotic places on the globe.

Therefore, it was simply impossible to surprise me with the standard 3-day training format. However, it was interesting for me to organize something useful for the Russian audience in America, moreover, it seemed to be a very difficult project, which, in principle, corresponded to my ambitions.

The results that I have at the moment, would never have happened in my life by themselves.

Three days of training at the very beginning of January were more suitable than ever for the start of both the project and the entire 2017 of the year. After all, many people start the new year with loud promises and grandiose plans. I must say at once that I perceived this project as an aid to anyone, just not to myself. Therefore, initially there were no unnecessary expectations.

However, already during the first day of training, I got the feeling that the training seemed to have been specially created for me ... and also for those who want more from life and are ready to say goodbye to their own importance at least on the 3 day and rolling up their sleeves , get to work on shaping your glorious future.

With Vladimir Gerasichev, business coach number one. Photos from the personal archive

For some reason in sports, if you want to participate in world championships, you hire the best coach, invest financial and time resources and train hard. But in real life, to become a “strong player” (no matter in business, in our creative projects, in family life) we naively assume that we can achieve these results on our own ...

What dreams come true in America ...

The ones you are trying to achieve, being in the old context! This is what I realized literally during the first 3 hours of training. An important role in all this is played by our habits. Habits to think and act according to the old schemes. And it's not in the country and not in the city in which you live, and not in the company in which you work, and not in the person who is near, but in you! From the change of places of the sum does not change.

What you used to do at home, you will do here. When I came to the training, I clearly knew what I wanted, what scale of implementation, what kind of relationship with a man, what quality. However, my internal conversations on this topic and my behavior, based on my attitudes, broadcast a completely different story.

If someone had told me a year ago that I would marry the man of my dreams immediately after the training, I would simply not believe it! Photos from the personal archive

Simply put, my internal context did not correspond to my external manifestations. So, I did not meet their ambitious goals. It was not easy to accept!

It was even more difficult to accept the fact of very sophisticated habits, which crawled out on my very first day regarding the male sex. (And I came to the training to work through the very topic of personal relationships).

For example, the habit of “giving up on men”, stagnating for years ... or the habit of “proving one’s case”, the habit of “entering into competitions with men”, “the habit of condemning”.

The prospect for the future that Volodya Gerasichev drew for me, based on my context, did not particularly please me, I was even going to be offended by him at some point, but I changed my mind! In fact, I had 2 options: stay with my inner convictions and continue in the same spirit to get results that are not at all what I want - but according to the old proven safe scheme... or take a risk - remove the armor... yes, it’s uncomfortable, yes, it’s vulnerable - but be honest with yourself, and with the chance that now everything will be different.

Life “before” and “after” training

It would seem that what can change in 3 days? I can say with confidence - everything! So, I left the training with rather mixed feelings, but with the feeling that the way it was before no longer suits me... It took me another couple of weeks to realize everything that was happening, and then events began to unfold with incredible speed...

If someone had told me a year ago that immediately after the training I would marry the man of my dreams, loving, caring, promising, incredibly cheerful and young, exactly the kind I had always dreamed of; I’ll get pregnant right away and enjoy my new position every day, while continuing to study and do what I love - I simply wouldn’t believe it!

The attitude “to achieve everything with incredible difficulty” was one of my ingrained ones. During the training, I uncompromisingly eliminated it. A new attitude took its place: “I get everything I want with ease,” “It is important for me to enjoy every day, sincerely and without stress, and to be grateful for what I have!” The transformation took place not only at the level of the soul, but also in the body.

Before the training, my health problems started in America. I was permanently worried about back pain, I constantly lacked energy, plus my mood jumped here and there.

Immediately after the training, I decided to take my health and nutrition seriously - I found a personal trainer and began active training, and also introduced a new diet. And after 2 weeks, a fateful meeting took place with my current husband - all the pain and ailments disappeared.

We had a wedding in Las Vegas, just like in the movies ... and now we are waiting for the addition to our family. Photos from the personal archive

Now, during pregnancy, I feel much better than before. No toxicosis, no pain, and energy in 2 times more than it was before. An interesting fact is that my husband saw me in the general company shortly before the training, and he didn’t even have a particular desire to take my phone number. However, after 2 weeks after the training, when we met with him by chance a second time, he not only paid attention to me, but also took the initiative by inviting me on a date.

When asked what has changed in me since the first meeting, he says “the context and energy that you emitted.” We moved in together literally right away. Then we got married in Las Vegas, just like in the movies... and now we are expecting a new addition to our family.

Who is this “Context” training for?

Я I saw people at the training who came just to sit back and watch others sweat. Has anything changed in their life? I think it’s unlikely. Perhaps they simply did not have the courage to declare what they really want from life, what they are willing to work tirelessly for.

Yes, of course, you can learn from other people's stories, but no other people's stories, movies, books and training videos will replace your personal training. There was also a category of people who came not to work, but to show themselves, show off, to put it simply!

For such people, “to appear” at the moment is more important than “to be”. Seem successful, seem happy in a relationship, etc. Can I get rid of it at the training? Sure you may.

However, no one promises you a pleasant process - it will be difficult and unpleasant and, sometimes, even embarrassing - but then the results will not keep you waiting! Realizing your internal attitudes, accepting them and starting to work with them is exactly why you need to go to training.

Photos from personal archive

Moreover, it is exclusively your work, not a coach. It became important for me to be healthy, and not to appear, to build true, genuinely loving relationships, to give life to another creature on our planet, our future son. And at the same time, it is still important for me not to stop developing, continue my work, implement new projects and help people around.

All my results to date are confirmation that this is really my priority now, since I have it all right now. This is no longer a picture of an ideal future - this is the reality in which I live every day!

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