How Cupid works in Silicon Valley: 7 rules of people who are interested in millionaires

Amy Andersen, aka Silicon Valley Cupid, is a world famous matchmaker. She has helped thousands of people find long-term relationships through her Linx Dating dating service. Many of her clients are wealthy. She charges VIPs hundreds of thousands of dollars for her services. CNBC.

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As the founder of Linx Dating, she has spent 20 years working with the most qualified men and women in the San Francisco Bay Area and beyond. Amy lives in California with her husband, whom she has been married to since 2008, and their son.

There's nothing wrong with dating for money, says Amy.

“A lot of people I know don't get offended if someone admires them for their money, especially if they've worked hard for it,” she says. “If you think this sounds like something from the 1950s, know that about a third of my wealthy clients are women looking for love, regardless of the wealth of their suitors.”

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Amy has identified several rules for dating and marrying a super-rich man.

1. Have your own set of achievements

It's not about a big bank account, but about something you've done on your own, like a career or part-time job that you're proud of, or a personal goal you've achieved.

This shows that you have your own interests and motives, and that you are not looking for a partner solely because of his money. It's also very good to think big and do things for yourself.

2. Be prepared to sign a non-disclosure agreement

Amy's influential clients require all potential partners to sign a non-disclosure agreement (NDA) before the meeting. This allows them to be more themselves on dates.

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3. You may need to be careful

The wealthiest people value privacy and tend to lead a lifestyle that allows them to blend in without drawing too much attention to themselves.

“You have to be careful at times not to flaunt the lifestyle their money gives you,” Amy says. “If following and being open on social media is important to you, dating one of these VIPs may not be for you.”

4. Have your privacy

The best relationships are like two people orbiting each other in space. Each of them does their own thing, lives their own life and does not depend solely on each other to be happy.

Even before meeting a potential partner, you should already have a basic level of happiness within. Focus on your friendships, family relationships, and relationships with yourself.

5. Be flexible

Many wealthy people have a difficult life - divorces, difficult financial situations, stressful business transactions, difficult relationships with children, and a lot of drama.

Be prepared for last-minute changes in plans and busy schedules. “Basically, you'll need a ton of inner strength and a trusted network to persevere through tough times,” says Amy.

6. Be yourself

Rich people can recognize insincerity in a date in a nanosecond, says Amy. Focus on your relationship, not the benefits of a new experience.

Not only will this make you more attractive to your partner, but it will also keep your mind sharp and help you decide if the relationship is right for you.

7. Sign a prenuptial agreement

Not all marriages are built on the strength of feelings.

“Keep in mind that divorce comes with huge financial costs. Part of this is attorney fees, which you can avoid with your own divorce agreement,” says Amy.

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Having a marriage contract can protect you if you decide to end the relationship. It can also help prevent divorce by applying mutual investment agreements that strengthen and save your marriage, according to Amy.

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