Revelation of the immigrant: why our women are better than American women

Famous videobloger “chizhny” is Russian immigrant Alexey Chizhov. He is 35 years old and has lived a significant part of his life in the United States. It is noteworthy that even after becoming a fairly successful person in America, he very quickly and clearly realized that it was still good and comfortable only with his own people.

Video blogger "chizhny", Alexey Chizhov. Screen youtube

I met with many American women, and all of them, like everywhere else, are quite different. There are home girls, there are people walking, but all American women have one distinguishing feature - their distorted mentality and upbringing.

Since childhood, women in America have been drilled into their heads that they are no different from men. To the point where even physiology supposedly doesn’t matter. And this distorted view of the psyche, in particular, is even expressed in the fact that when going to a restaurant, a girl will never allow a guy to pay for her. At first glance this seems like a small thing, but in fact it’s just the opposite. In fact, this attitude immediately puts up walls. What she ordered, she pays, for what you ordered, you pay. As a result, it is as if you are not building a relationship, but moving on a parallel course. And so it is in everything.

I now remember a story: I was driving a car, and a typical situation happened, either I cut someone off, or they cut me off in one word, an angry American ran out and started yelling. In general, everything is the same as everywhere else, nothing unusual. But then a second later an American woman ran out and started yelling and swearing twice as loud and dirty as him. And I stand and think: okay, man, he thinks he can do something, but where is the woman going? That is, here is another manifestation of this opinion, they say, women are the same as men. And since they understand that this is not so, they try to show it even more.

Or here’s a very recent example: you come to a girl’s home in Russia, and what do you usually see there? As a rule, the table is already set there, she did her best in advance, the salad is cut, sausage, borscht - and you understand that they are waiting for you. And here you come, it’s as if you tore her away from something. You stand there cutting cheese and sausage with her, but there’s no talk of anything serious like borscht.

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Frankly speaking, American girls are weird. Everything seems to be not real for them. That is, they can say that at the moment they love you, and after three days that they no longer tolerate them. And this is not a whim, as happens with ours. Our same love you will not stop if something offended. And then, as if there was nothing.

The feeling that relations with Americans is a business, they say, this asset has worked, has not rolled, let's go next. And this is done so ridiculously and with a cool head, that you wonder. As if these are not feelings of two people, but a dispute over a subject or inheritance.

Although there are probably more emotions there too. For example, a common occurrence here is when a girl breaks up with you through some message on social networks and at the end writes “don’t call, otherwise I’ll call the police.” And she will call. This is not my story, it’s all over here.

One more example. An acquaintance told me about it - and, frankly, it best describes the essence of Western women. He was doing research at Harvard University, and one day while walking down the corridor, he saw a woman with a bunch of books - of course, he opened the door for her. Then she silently stopped, put all the books on the floor, came close to him and called him a chauvinistic pig to his face.

At the same time, it’s paradoxical, but if you ask any Russian in the United States who, in his opinion, Russian girls are closest to in comparison, he will tell you that with African-American women. And indeed it is. That is, they are close in mentality. The fact is that black American women still have patriarchy in their families. If you get into the house of such people, you will see that the dad is in charge there, just like with us. They still value family relationships and kinship; Americans have not had this for a long time. I dated a dark-skinned girl, but again, it’s still its own culture, a bit of a frivolous outlook on life.

In general, I was born in Russia in the city of Astrakhan, I have a Russian father and a Russian mother, here in the USA I can easily afford to buy a house in Pennsylvania or New Jersey without any mortgage, since I don’t drink, don’t smoke and have saved up something. But here's a nuance for you. Once I met an American woman, we began an affair, and then at some point she told me:

“Well, yes, Alexey, everything is fine with you, but you see, I have $120 - this is only my annual expense, and if you have less, then we are unlikely to succeed in anything further.”

That's why I want a girl from Russia or Ukraine or Belarus. I believe that only there are still women left who are not spoiled. They are not so spoiled by money, not so spoiled in thoughts, they still know how to love and not be calculating robots, who have not yet forgotten that they need to be feminine, and so on... In addition, it is not for nothing that Slavic beauty is considered the standard.

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