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How to prove adultery and what to do next: tips from a private investigator

Treason is always pain, inevitably generated by the betrayal of a loved one. However, sometimes it is simply necessary to find out the bitter truth - first of all, in order to put an end to illusions and begin to build a future life. In America, evidence of treason is often very practical. Even in the absence of a marriage contract, they can affect who the court decides to leave the children with and what part of the common property or compensation the deceived spouse will receive.

Valor Security & Investigations team awaits a new assignment. Photo: Jane Favsty

Only licensed private detectives can help establish and prove the truth in such a case. Professionals from the New York Detective Agency Valor Security & Investigations They say that they have a lot of experience in such matters, and suspicions of infidelity are one of the most common reasons for contacting detective agencies.

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"Love affair at work"

Jennifer turned to a private detective at Valor Security, without clear evidence, but the feeling that her husband was cheating on her was very strong. The last time evidence of marital infidelity caught her eye about a year and a half ago - then Ruslan exchanged intimate photos with a graduate of the school in which he worked as a teacher. Now the former schoolgirl was already in college, his wife did not have other clear evidence of Ruslan’s infidelity. However, the feeling that the lie was continuing did not leave the American for a day. Ruslan regularly returned home before her, and there was no way to find out exactly what he was doing in his spare couple of hours. As a result, Jennifer turned to Valor Security for help.

“We set up a post next to the school - we were waiting in the car for Ruslan to come home from work. They managed to "catch" him on the very first day of surveillance: after finishing his lessons, the unlucky spouse went not home, but to college - to meet his mistress. They made love right in the car, after which he dropped the girl off and calmly walked home, ”says a private detective, one of the co-founders of Valor Security & Investigations Dmitry Zhurba.

Further surveillance confirmed that the unfaithful spouse traveled along this route every day.

“During the“ last chord ”, we also took our client with us. Ruslan drove his mistress to a Japanese restaurant. They walked to the restaurant in an embrace, kissed right at the entrance and did not even look back. All this time, our team followed Jennifer. She spoke with her husband only in a restaurant. You can imagine the expression on his face! At first he tried to flaunt, telling his wife to contact his lawyer. However, when he found out that she hired private detectives, all the bravado instantly disappeared, ”recalls Dmitry.

Price treason

You can understand the reaction of Ruslan: as Dmitry Zhurba explains, even if the spouses did not enter into a marriage contract, the judge can take into account the fact of betrayal - for example, when deciding which spouse the children will remain with.

“If the betrayal is proven, it is quite possible that the judge will conclude that the husband or wife found to be cheating leads an immoral lifestyle, and therefore the children should stay with another spouse. By the way, the decision to divide joint property is largely based on who the children are with. It is this spouse who receives most of the common property. The judge may also award the “guilty” party to special payments. Things such as expenses for the maintenance of children, the amount of alimony, and so on, often depend on the opinion of the judge, and the proven fact of treason can significantly affect this opinion. Of course, the income level of the spouses is also taken into account, but still it is not decisive. I'm not talking about cases when a prenuptial agreement has been concluded that directly determines the consequences of adultery, ”the detective explains.

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Jennifer and Ruslan did not have children, but all the facts spoke in favor of his wife. It was by marrying her that an immigrant from Russia Ruslan received a green card about ten years ago. He earned less than his wife and, moreover, deceived her for almost two years.

“Of course, the judge will take into account the fact that the husband, in fact, took advantage of her and behaved dishonorably. The level of income will also be taken into account - even though the property is recorded on both of them. They even had a single bank account. By the way, we immediately advised Jennifer to transfer his part of the money to another account so that Ruslan would not withdraw the entire amount. Then it would be much more difficult to return it, ”Dmitry shares secrets.

According to him, if a person wants to learn about the fact of treason, as they say, for himself, and does not plan to use it in court at the moment, the detectives still prepare a report, according to a certain procedure. It includes a full report and a whole package of related documents that a person can use in court, even after a certain time.

Suffer or sue?

According to a private detective, both Americans and Russian-speaking clients are equally suspicious of adultery. Based on the difference between the post-Soviet and American mentality, it could be assumed that immigrants from the former Soviet republics simply want to find out the truth and avoid courts, preferring to sort things out personally, while Americans painstakingly collect documents for lawyers. But Dmitry Zhurba refutes this stereotype. According to him, Russian immigrants who have long been living in the United States are quickly adopting the American mentality. The detective notes that the difference in response to adultery is manifested rather not by nationality, but by gender.

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«Men, as a rule, silently accept the facts and leave. Women often do not believe even the obvious evidence and turn around again, as if trying to convince themselves that an error occurred, and yet there was no betrayal. Although there are exceptions. One client - a man - did not want to believe in a proven case of adultery of a girl and continued to live with her. They had a baby and only a year later, after a DNA test, it turned out that the baby was not his. The case ended in divorce, and he did not pay any alimony, because he was able to prove that the father of the child was another person", - Dmitry shares examples.

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By the way, according to the laws of the state of New York, where Valor Security & Investigations operates, treason fraught with imprisonment for up to 3 months. However, in the practice of a detective agency, there has never been a case that someone tried to use this norm.

“People care only about two things: clarification of relationships and financial issues. In addition, in New York, the police are so overloaded with real crimes that they react sluggishly even to domestic violence, although, of course, they go to such calls and make sure that people do not mutilate each other, ”explains Dmitry Zhurba, a private detective in New York.

Influential traitor

However, even with all the evidence in hand, not all spouses are in a hurry to get a divorce. Sometimes it directly depends on their financial situation. It was in this situation that Maria found herself. She arrived in the USA at the end of the 80's, and at that moment when she found out about her husband’s betrayal, both were already young. The couple had a joint child, moreover, Maria and her son were completely financially dependent on Yuri.

“We were able to figure out the hotel in which he met with his mistress. We informed our client about this, she came there and, introducing herself as his wife, received the room key. As a result, Mary found her husband right at the time of treason. However, she told us that she had to “swallow” it. Her husband had very influential parents, and Maria was afraid that they could hire an expensive lawyer and leave her and her child on the street without a penny, despite all the evidence. Yuri promised that there would be no more betrayal, and she preferred to believe him or pretend that she believed, ”Dmitry admits.

A similar story happened with Elena, who had long suspected that her husband was walking on the side. Unable to suffer any more suspicions, she turned to Valor Security & Investigations.

“We followed her husband for quite some time, but did not reveal anything suspicious. Our employees had already prepared a report and were preparing it for dispatch, when suddenly on the last day of surveillance our agents noticed Elena's husband and another girl in a cafe. At the same time, we were not sure that their relationship was serious, ”Dmitry recalls.

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However, the detectives had rare luck. During the investigation, the loving spouse began to pay attention to an employee of the agency, acting undercover. He did not make it clear that he wanted intimacy, and invited the girl on a date. What was his surprise when, instead of the desired stranger, a meeting appeared ... his own wife.

“The evidence was there, but in this particular case, the spouse did not seem to want to file for divorce, fearing to injure the child. Nevertheless, we have documented all the evidence, and she will be able to use it whenever she wants, ”concluded Dmitry.

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