11 tips how to realize yourself in immigration

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Vladimir Gerasichev is a famous Russian motivational business and life coach who helps people achieve their goals. Films dedicated to the author's training developed by him "Context"were repeatedly shown on the main Russian TV channels. Gerasichev got the right to an internship as a trainer in the USA in 90-ies, later founded his own training company, and today conducts trainings around the world. On the eve of his next visit to the United States, he prepared a survival instruction for those who moved to live abroad specifically for ForumDaily.

1. Remember that tourism should not be confused with immigration. When you come as a tourist, everything seems wonderful to you. You know where you live, where you get the money from and how you spend it, enjoy new experiences and meetings with people. It is quite another thing when you come abroad to work or immigrate. These things must be separated in my head. If there is an opportunity to make a test visit - come to this country on a work visa before making a decision on immigration, do it. This can greatly affect your plans and ideas about the country.

2. Keep in mind that reality will be different. You live in your illusions, as everything will be. On the one hand, it inspires you and can help you.

For example, in 30-ies, an Italian immigrated to the United States who got a job selling a Ford car dealer. At work, he achieved success: his sales continued to grow even in winter, although they usually declined. Surprised executives came to find out what methods he uses. It turned out that the hero did not know that there should be a recession, he did not know the language and did not read the newspapers that wrote about it. Therefore, its sales were equally good both in summer and in winter.

The picture that you invented yourself, the filter through which you look at things, determines your interaction with others. This is both good and bad. When you encounter inconsistencies — expect one thing, and another happens — you begin to resist. The illusion that existed already ceases to inspire you.

3. Be open to new. Every person has a “program” for the country where he grew up. When moving, the old patterns by which a person previously acted stop working. The illusion that most people live under is that the new environment will be so good that everything will work out. This is not so, “you need to make friends with the environment.” Therefore, communicate with new people, do not resist reality, get acquainted, study the environment, be flexible.

4. Set a goal and voice it. Declare it on social networks, don’t be afraid of condemnation. By setting goals, you shape your reality and find support around you. One famous trainer said that there are 3 states in which a person lives: we start, we finish and see how it goes. As long as we are able to “start”, we find opportunities, energy, money, the right people.

It is not the circumstances around you that determine what you are doing, but the decisions you make. And they are directly related to the goals that we are voicing.

5. Communicate with the right people who give energy. The more you absorb the pessimism and disbelief of the wrong people, the more difficult it will be for you. It may even cause you to lower your arms.

6. Create your own mood. In this case, remember that it is not external circumstances that form the mood, but you yourself. Read books, watch motivating films, attend inspirational trainings, create energy. Remember that the mood is in your hands.

7. Be sure to learn the language, always and everywhere. There are people who don't think so. I think this is wrong. Language is not only a means of communication, but a tool with which you think. If you live in another country, then you need to think the same way as its inhabitants, you need to change the paradigm. Moreover, locals respect people who know their language, and this provides a lot of opportunities for work, relationships and joy. Look for positive people. See paragraph 5.

8. Go in for sports, active people are happier and more efficient at work.

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9. Add new positive habits

10. Most often, people leave in an attempt to run away from something. And they come to a new place for something they can get. This is not entirely true. If you think about moving not from the point of view of “what can I get”, but “what can I create”, then the chances of a successful move will increase significantly. You change your approach from the position of consumption to the position of creator and author. Think about how you can be useful to the society where you are going, what you can give them, what talents you have. The more you generate, the more you create, the more you get out of it. Start thinking about moving as about giving, imagine what you will do there and how it will make people happy, focus on giving.

11. Reconsider accountability. This is not something that crushes, and this is not a punishment, but your attitude to what is happening. It is common for people to be victims (not to know the language, for example), especially in a different environment, to be “influenced” by circumstances. So, it is important to be responsible for your attitude, for your actions, and not to blame the move or the new environment for everything.

Tickets for the training of Vladimir Gerasichev in New York, which will be held from 5 to 7 in May, can be bought here, to training in San Francisco (May 12-14) - here. Limited number of seats.

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